We Brits have endured turbulent times of late. So, in an attempt to inject a little light relief into proceedings, I’ve devised my own 20 questions tag.
I’ll kick things off and tag a fellow bloggers who will then (hopefully) answer the same 20 questions. Not the height of excitement folks, I know. But it’s a brief respite from the continual political talk going on right now.
Ok, here goes…
1. Morning or evening person?
Evening. Always have been, even as a kid. I just don’t function in the morning.
2. Night in or night out?
These days (because I’m so old) I prefer a cosy night in with a good film and good food. The weather here in England is generally crap so I really have to force myself to leave the house when invited out on a cold, rainy evening.
3. Lots of friends or a few close friends?
A few friends. My closest circle of friends are those I have known for almost 20 years. It’s best to keep them sweet, they know too much!
4. Time to yourself or time spent with others?
As sad as it may seem, I actually love my own company, especially as I still live with my parents. It’s not as though I have a home of my own. So, I appreciate time to myself all the more. I’ve always been able to occupy myself. My folks often say I would happily play alone as a tot. Take that as you will…
5. Holiday at home or abroad?
Abroad, definitely. I rarely have the opportunity to travel so when I can, I prefer to go abroad, mainly to escape the British weather.
6. Countryside, seaside or city?
Seaside. I live in central England so I’m several hours drive from the nearest coast. It’s a rarely seen sight for me. I always wanted a house overlooking the sea. I just love everything about it.
7. Hot climate or cold climate?
Hot! I have muscular dystrophy and poor circulation. Thus I really feel the cold. I always feel so much better in every sense when in a warmer climate.
8. Books or films?
I’m a big film buff. Admittedly I watch a lot of films. Box sets seem to be the ‘in thing’ at the moment. I’ve been told I should get stuck into Game of Thrones and Stranger Things, among others. I may do at some point. I did watch Fargo season 2. That was decent. But I just don’t have the patience for TV shows. I like to settle down at night and watch a good film. 2-hours and you’re done.
9. Rice or pasta?
Rice. I like pasta but it’s much stodgier. Due to my MD, scoliosis and respiratory decline, I have limited space for food as it is. Plus I find rice more versatile.
10. Tea or coffee or..?
I like the smell of coffee but hate the taste. I’ll drink tea but I’m not a huge fan. I live on Lucozade. Bad I know. But it literally got me through Uni. Can’t believe they’ve changed the recipe! Bloody sugar tax. It really doesn’t taste the same anymore.
11. Cook, takeaway or eat out?
Ooh, I enjoy all three. Depends how I’m feeling I guess. I rarely have a takeaway so when I do it’s a treat. It’s nice to eat out with family or friends. And I do like to cook because it means I’m involved and can eat whatever I want. I’m a bit of a bish, bash, bosh type. I don’t like to be restricted by a recipe.
12. Formal or casual?
Casual, all the way. I don’t do formal!
13. Dogs or cats?
I love both and have always had cats and dogs. I’ve never known life without a pet. If I had to choose I would probably say I prefer dogs. Generally more loyal I think.
14. Play it safe or be daring?
I wish I could say I’m a spontaneous type, but unfortunately MD doesn’t lend itself to such a lifestyle. I hate routine and monotony. I’m as daring as I can be.
15. Idealist or realist?
Realist. I have to be. My whole existence requires consideration, planning and organisation. It’s nice to dream every now and then but dreaming tends to lead to disappointment.
16. Lead or follow?
I guess I’m a bit of both, depending on the context. I prefer to follow as I don’t like responsibility or being held accountable. I’d rather go with the flow. But I am an employer -reluctantly – since I hire my own PA’s. Therefore, this calls for a degree of leadership.
17. Work or play?
Play. Life’s far too short!
18. Lennon or McCartney?
Lennon. Sorry Paul.
19. Love or money?
Love, no doubt. Cliché maybe. Money helps, of course. I wouldn’t turn it down. But at the end of the day, when the shit hits the fan, all you want is your loved ones around you. All the money in the world won’t cure my MD. But love makes life worth living.
20. Share your problems or keep them to yourself?
I’m often accused of being secretive, guarded and evasive. I do bottle things up. I know “it’s good to talk”, and all that. But I just don’t find talking about my problems helps. I don’t like people to know when I’m unhappy or ill or struggling.
I’ll be honest, I find it difficult sharing so much about myself on my blog. I hold a lot back. I’m not a fan of social media and it took me months and months to finally submit. Months and months of friends pushing me to give it a go. I still require the odd kick up the ass to persist.
I hope you enjoyed this post. Let me know what you think.